"We're just going to laugh that off". end quote
Why do I feel like that's an accusation aimed toward me? The only time I've seen ANY porno was brought forth by two or three women I happen to be with, other than that I've never pursued that particular titillation. It just doesn't do anything for me. The last time I saw strippers I was about 20 yrs. old in a place loosely called the DMZ at a small base 'camp' that was put on by the USO for I guess the moral of us troops, yada yada yada. But whatever, I found it so profoundly sad I haven't been to a show of that nature since; and you wouldn't be able to lure me into one for love nor money even now 50 long years after.
Even though I'm a male I've always TRIED to take females on their own merit. I also try to recognize that as a male raised within a patriarchal world I'm going to always come up short and I try to correct that when I can (in the best time I can manage). I don't laugh off anything. I'm younger than that now.
Where does anyones sexual appetites come from?